So it’s Sunday. We have officially been in Ghana for one
week. We are all moved in in Asamankese and we have now survived our first
church service in Africa. Petra and I wore our Ghanaian skirts to church; the
ones that we bought from Melissa that were made here before she came back. We
fit in much better that way, although I will have to get used to long skirts in
this heat!
The church service was long; we left the house at 9am and
got back at 1pm. The walk is only 5 minutes. Yup, it was 4 hours long.
Surprisingly though, it didn’t seem as long as I had thought it would.
Mary’s dad, Dr. Apea, preached this morning and thankfully,
someone translated the sermon for us. Actually, I am pretty sure they brought
someone in from Accra to do it too, so that was really nice of them! ... Funny
thing, church was supposed to start around 9:30am, and when I say around
9:30am, I mean around. Things don’t start when they are said to start around
here. Anyways. Akua had shown Petra and I the church on Friday when we visited,
so we knew where we were going this morning when we walked. We got there at
9:15am and Dr. Apea wasn’t there. At 10am, he still wasn’t there. We started to
get worried. Maybe we weren’t in the right church? This IS the church that we
were shown isn’t it? Crap, maybe he is preaching somewhere else today and there
was a miscommunication!? ... Nope, at 10:15am he showed up, and our mini heart
attacks ended. Gotta love the Ghana life.
They had Lord’s Supper today and we got to take part in it.
The church wasn’t too large, so they have everyone file up and receive the
bread and wine. It was nice to be able to experience that on our first visit.
Maybe next Sunday will be shorter then?
They asked us to come up and say a few words (nerve wracking
because we weren’t prepared ahead of time) and we said hi from you, Melissa.
They went crazy over that; she made quite the impact on these people! We have a
scary amount to live up to.
Random observations at church today:
-church services in Ghana have no definite ending time
-long church services seem extra long when you are sweating.
You are very aware of the time when your hands get clammy, your legs stick
together and you drink so much water that you have to pee the whole time haha.
-the congregation was super happy to greet us and definitely
made us feel welcome!
-men and women sit in separate places in church according to
gender and age as well
-everyone wanted our contact info at the end of the church
service. I guess we can expect a lot of calls?
-they sing songs on repeat; they sing the same words over
and over and over and over again. Actually, that was kinda nice because even
though we don’t know the meaning of the words, we could kind of pick up on what
they were saying and sing along.
It was really nice to get to experience church here, and it
was nice that Dr. Apea could introduce us and make an announcement about our
classes. Registration is Tuesday afternoon, so think of us then and pray that
lots of women come out!
I am nervous to start teaching. The literacy program that
Petra is continuing is already started and very well outlined. The business
program is new; this is the first time that it is being taught so I am a little
worried that I won’t know where to start. Hopefully when we meet with the women
for the first time we will have a better idea of where they are at and I can
begin to make a plan for them.
Uncle Ernest (one of the teachers at the school) and Kujo
(the program supervisor) came by today. We talked about school plans and it definitely
made me feel a lot better about things. I am sure that after Tuesday, I will
feel less anxious.
Miscellaneous Ramblings and Observations thus far:
-“Daabi” means “no”
-It is socially acceptable to pick your nose here; like full
out digging for nuggets. It’s awesome.
-Ghana has cucumbers! I am in my GLORY!
-The children here are the most beautiful ever! They all
yell “obroni” at us and all they want is attention and smiles. It’s adorable.
-Petra and I put a poster on the wall called “Petra and
Carolyn attempt to learn Twi.” We are writing new words that we learn so we
remember them
-My sunburn is ridiculous. I am in so much pain. Oh well.
-OH! I held a beautiful little black baby yesterday. He fell
asleep in my arms and just clung to me. Such a cutie. Anyone who knows me well,
knows I love babies and kids. I was in love. Petra just made fun of me.
-Abena is my Twi name. It is pronounced by many people here
with their accents as “Abna” really quickly. (This is my name because I was
born on a Tuesday).
-Apparently if people call us “obroni,” we are supposed to say
hey “obibini” which means black person, and then say our name so that they call
us by our name the next time they see us.
-Belinda is a FANTASTIC cook. I will have to get used to all
the onions in everything though!
-Apparently the “rains” started here in Asamankese 3 days
ago. We had a big thunderstorm here and I just stood on our back porch in the
rain, taking it all in. It felt fantastic on my sunburn!
This is what the lovely thunderstorm looked like tonight! |
-We failed culturally at our first visit. It is the culture
here to offer company water as soon as they get there. It is thought that it
takes energy out of a person to get there, so before you have your visit, you
replenish that energy that they used to come see you. We didn’t offer Uncle
Ernest any, and only remembered halfway through Kujo’s visit. Whoops. He said
it was okay, but GLADLY took the water. (I would too in this heat!) We are also
supposed to hand the glass/bottle right to the person and not put it on the
table first. Hmm. Have to remember that for next time.
-When people leave after visiting here, they don’t just get
up and go. They say, “okay, I am going to ask to leave now...” or, “please
excuse me now.” I will have to remember that when I go visit the women.
-The electricity has gone out twice so far today. Apparently
it does that a lot here. It isn’t for too long at a time right now, so it hasn’t
been bad at all. We have running water, so that is fantastic!
It is 7pm here right now and pitch-black outside already. It
makes it easier to go to bed early so that we are able to wake up earlier too. I
am ready for bed!
I've just talked to you but of course I had to go read the blog!!!! Re Timing -hahahahah - turns out Dad had gone to another church (Presbyterian - on the other side of Asamankese town) to announce your classes so I guess that excuses his lateness? LOL! RE: cultural things like the water thing - too true! You will get the hang of it. RE: picking the nose - nuggets and all- hahahahahahahahah! Talked to Petra about hairy legs...so different isn't it? So glad you love Bel's food - she is absolutely amazing.With your love for kids, you will be inundate you and I won't be surprised if some moms give you their kids in May and say "Please take her to Canada - she's yours!" Y'all have a great week yah?
ReplyDeleteAwesome blog again sweetheart. I love reading about your experiences and adventures and I am looking forward to coming to visit. Church here was only 1 1/2 hrs which seemed long but nothing in comparison. I am glad that the sermon was translated for you, it sounds like they are doing much to make you feel at home. I know when I was in El Salvador and Guatemalua the church services were a real highlight even if you couldn't understand everything. God speaks to us even when we don't understand the language.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the food, you will experience things that you may not get a chance to do again and you will remember them for a long time to come.
Love you
Dad.
Wow Cari, it sounds like you are having a great adventure. Well except for that church service, wow 4 hours sitting in a church with no air conditioning. Your a trouper! It sounds like there are little cultural differences. It's weird how such small things are important to people's culture. And picking there noises in public! that is what people secretly wants to do but would never admit. Amazing lol! And I am sorry to here about the sunburn. i could only imagine with your fare skin how much that hurts. Hopefully you'll get a nice tan!
ReplyDeleteMiss you Cari! And Aaron misses you too! I am excited to read your next blog!
Cassie